Thanks for staying engaged with my problem Dragon. No, doors opening and closing, tapping speakers doesn't seem to have anything to do with it. Here is something odd though, a common chain of events seem to be part of it, but maybe not I will pay more attention to it from now on and count starts. It seems that if the radio and charms don't work on the mornings first start, after a few starts and stops, just normal driving to store and home then post office and home, stuff like that, after a few of those it starts working, might have nothing to do with it but I will pay attention to that now.OK, so no go on the hard reset of the radio.
That other thread got me thinking. When you get a fail, see if tapping on the speakers in the doors has an effect. Or opening and closing the doors. What you would be looking for is a intermittent ground fault in one of the speaker wires.. According to that other fellow, when one speaker grounded out, all of them shut off. Long shot, but its another free test. We are running short on good ideas, time to try some bad ones.