how the hell do you get it off :ugh: the nut just keeps spinning and on the backside of it there is a round thing i cant seem to get ahold of....any help asap would be awesome...cuz its currently sitting outside on stand 
this is the correct way.Open ended wrench on the nut and on the end of the stud to keep it from spinning
you were prying the wrong way then. im talking about prying on the backside of the link so as to take pressure off the nut and put pressure on the shoulder of the shaft which prevents it from spinning. i do this atleast 4 times a day on various vehicles and i've never broken one, its pretty much impossible if you do it right.We did that when putting my lift spindles on and it broke the stud. Had to make a link until my new one came in at the stealership. And they are proud of those links, it was like $50
i wasnt saying you didnt know what you were doing, i just dont see how prying on the backside of the link itself is going to snap the shaft..Actually... that is the exact way we were doing it. I have done it on my truck countless times as well as my car. But this last time, for some reason, it decided to snap the stud. Don't be so quick to jump to conclusions, I have worked on vehicles under mechanic guidance since before I could drive. (family full of mechanics)