On these vehicles the voltage regulator is not built into the alternator.
Voltage regulation is performed by the PCM.
There is a charge module also, but it's just a "front end" component that works with the PCM.
It's possible for it to go bad, but I've never heard of one failing. It's a passive device, not much there to fail.
Your first task is to learn if the alternator is keeping the voltage up at it's normal ~ 13 VDC, or if it's drooping sometimes. Thing is, if it fails to keep the battery voltage up then eventually you're gonna see a dead battery. If you aren't seeing dead batteries then the charging circuit is probably OK.
I say "probably" because it's always possible it could let the voltage droop momentarily from time to time. That would be unusual though.
We do know that these trucks' electronics do not tolerate low system voltage very well.
Again though, I would be careful about assuming that all three of the problems you listed are related.
Having an electrical problem come and go at random is the worst, so you do have to look at the clues and symptoms and start with some assumptions.
And the heater fan running slow is one clue, as good a place to start as any.
Just don't be too quick to assume that it's related to the other two problems.
possibilities:
-the fan motor is dying (it does happen that an automotive electrical motor fails intermittently, not all at once).
The fan motor can have shorted windings that happen over time. In that case it may continue to run but the speed will drop (or it will stop altogether) because the motor isn't able to produce full torque.
Bad/worn-out motor bearings can drag down the speed also.
-wiring problem in the fan motor circuit (this includes grounding problems affecting the fan circuit)
-the battery/alternator/charging circuit is allowing the overall system (battery) voltage to droop.
A low voltage problem won't cause the dash lights and the headlights to go out the way you described. If the voltage dropped that far the engine would shut down.
That's where your three problems don't appear to be related...
"Ground problems" are the one thing that can cause problems with two or more (otherwise) unrelated circuits. We say "ground", but that's really not a very accurate word to use... the battery negative circuit has nothing at all to do with the ground, it's just a loose term we've used for years. A better word to use is "common".
It's the common connection for all circuits to the battery negative terminal.
Each separate circuit for all the electrical devices goes through it's own fuse and it's own controls (switch on the dash, sensor, etc), but all those circuits come together at the negative side of the battery, the "common" side.
Because it isn't possible to connect each one of those individual circuits to the battery negative terminal, we connect them to the body/frame in various locations and connect the battery negative to the frame also to complete the circuit(s).
The troubleshooting problem comes when one of those locations develops a problem, if several devices are "grounded" there at the same point. That can cause some really confusing symptoms.
So
if all three problems you cited were related, a "ground" problem would be the most likely thing that could cause it.
I would just be careful making the assumption that they are related.
These trucks have gained a reputation around here for "ground problems" only because of the stupid "Splice Packs" under the hood.
Those things are nothing more than a way to shave a few pennies off the cost of assembly at the factory. It was just an idea someone had to make installation of the wire harness go faster on the production-line. Other than that they serve no purpose at all.
Any vehicle can have or develop over time a connection problem to a ground point.
On these trucks though you have the two Splice Packs on either side where the common/ground wire for several circuits come together into one ground connection.
The problem there is not that it's the ground circuit or that it's a multi-pole connection. The problem is that the sort of 'push-on' connector used there has no place on any modern vehicle.
They're only a multi-pole copy of these:
The fact that they are a multi-pole connector used to ground more than one device is what makes the faults they cause confusing.
Again though, I'm not totally convinced that your problem is grounding.. That's for you to discover. The trick of adding a temporary ground wire to the faulty device will answer that question.
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